How To Parents Treat Their Children In Teenage

There's no point to talk with you You dont understand me , You dont even know me

A teen spits these words at a parent, who is hurt and outraged. How can her own child say these things? She's worked hard to know her own child, learning to read his feelings from voice and gesture, learning to place his words in the context of his day-to-day life. How can her own child now say to her, "You don't know who I really am."

Today we will discuss how to treat with teenagers

Develop a heathly relationship with your children:

Maintain the healthy relationship with your teen Talk with them about their lives .Support encourgae and show love to your children .Its is not possible to watch your children all the time so it is important to estabilish a trusting relationship so they will feel comfortable to discuss their regular routine with you . Try to be  make a good friend on your teen because they will easily share their all problems with you easily.

Celebrate your child's accomplishments:

share his disappointments, and show interest in his hobbies. You don’t have to make a big deal of this – sometimes it’s just a matter of showing up to watch your child play sport or music, or giving him a lift to extra curricular activities.

Agreed Household Activites:

 kids of all ages the sense that they’re making an important contribution to family life. These could be things like chores, shopping or helping older or younger members of the family. These things make them responsible . 

How to Improve your relation with your teen

Help your teenagers believe in themselves. They will only believe in themselves if you show them that you have confidence in them and faith that they will make the right decisions.Recognize the efforts of your teenagers. Reassure them that they have the qualities you want for them.

And if conflict with your teenager does arise:

• Focus on the behaviour, not the person.
• Think ahead to what you will say and how you will say it.
• Keep your messages clear and concise.
• Stick to one issue at a time.
• Do not argue with the way your teen sees things. Instead, state your own beliefs and opinions
• Do not talk down to your teenager. There's nothing more irritating than a condescending tone
• Do not lecture or preach. This only provokes hostility. Besides, the average teenager goes "deaf" after hearing about five sentences.
• Do not set limits or consequences you cannot enforce.